Many wedding planning tips focus on the moment you’ll say yes to the dress, or how to keep your guests happy at the reception, or things to pack for honeymoon. But your ceremony is one of, if not THE most important part of the day and when it finally arrives, you might find yourself overwhelmed with emotion or overcome with nerves. But whether you are having an indoor, religious ceremony or a casual, outdoor celebration, this is your moment and it’s time to savour it. Here are some quick tips for some things to consider when planning out your ceremony.
Take it slow
It’s exciting and you can’t wait, but try not to sprint down the aisle. It’s a good idea to practice your walk to any music you plan on using a day or two before your big day and make sure you have enough time to really soak in the moment of walking the aisle past everyone you love.
Think about the light
Your photographer will love you for this one. If it’s an outdoor ceremony, give some serious thought to the time of the celebration & the shade/light at the ceremony spot. While you’re thinking through the light situation, also give some thought to the spacing up at the front. If you have a large bridal party, it’s often more effective to have them sit during your ceremony so your guests have a better view and there is more space for your photography and videography teams to do what we do best and capture every moment as it unfolds.
Take in the moment
Even if you opt to see each other during a first look before the ceremony, nothing takes away from that moment of seeing each other across the room moments before saying yes to the start of your adventure. Breathe. Pause. Take the time to savour each other’s reactions in front of all you love.
Rings
Make sure it’s VERY clear who is to give the rings to the bestman before the ceremony. Often, this ends up being me as I have had them at the bridal prep, which is totally ok. A nice tip I always give for the ring exchange is to hold the ring from the bottom and pause just as you are about to put that on. This way, the moment is captured & you get the chance to pause, make strong eye contact and seal your love.
The First Kiss
Just as mentioned above, hold each other and have a looooooong kiss. Everyone will be snapping away at the new Mr & Mrs so enjoy the moment. Ps. I’ll never say no to a fist pumps or happy dances afterwards. I LOVE this moment!!
The recessional
Hooray! It’s finally that moment you get to walk off to celebrate as newlyweds. But before you do, make sure to turn around and grab your bouquet back from whoever is holding it for you. It’s also a good idea to have your marriage officiant explain to the guests what will take place next, which exit to leave from, how to form your confetti tunnel if you’re having one or where to meet for any group shot plans. It helps if you walk out a different entrance, but remember, you also don’t have to stick to traditions, the day is completely up to you and fist pumps are always encouraged. Have fun!
